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Rest In Peace, Ogogo: The Men’s Health Talk We Can’t Avoid

From the crackle of old television sets and VHS cassettes during my childhood to the big cinema screens of today and streaming platforms, I watched Taiwo Hassan popularly known as Ogogo. His cinematic style was bold and raw. A perfectionist who is always serious on set. He respected the craft, mentored young ones, wrote, directed, produced and featured in numerous movies. I cannot think of Ogogo without remembering Owo Blow. His portrayal of Wole Owolabi was one of those performances that I can’t forget. He acted the role that audiences, including many young women of that generation, remained drawn to the character long afterwards and became his Crush. The film helped introduce him to a wider audience and became one of the defining chapters of his long career. Those productions also featured the women who completed the stories. I remember the late Adebimpe Adekola, known as Ireti, of blessed memory. Her frequent professional pairing with Ogogo formed part of the memories of that era. A...

“Good Morning, Tony”: Culture, Respect and the Art of Reading the Room

“Good morning, Tony.” Those three words, spoken by a young woman to Tony Elumelu at a recent graduation event, ignited a national conversation within hours. Mr Elumelu corrected her at once: “No, you won’t call me Tony. You’ll call me Mr Elumelu, TOE or Chairman.” The clip spread rapidly, prompting debates about corporate culture, African respect, generational differences and the so-called “Oyibo” approach to workplace relationships. I watched the video several times. I could see both sides. I have worked in telecommunications and financial services environments where first-name culture was almost standard practice. At iSON BPO, inside an MTN call-centre setting, the atmosphere differed markedly from traditional Nigerian workplaces. I worked alongside Mr Adeyanju Johnson, Mr Onasa, Ms Odion, Mr Macaubrey et al…as my Team Lead. Even in that environment, I found it difficult to address some of them by first name alone. Earlier, in the financial sector, I called my branch manager Aunty Bi...